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Is Love Blind?

29-11-2024

“Love is Blind”, the Netflix series where couples say “I do” without ever having seen each other, having only spoken from closed pods, has become a huge success in many countries. I’ve followed three editions: those of the US, Sweden, and the UAE. The American version focuses heavily on sensation and drama, while the Swedish version demonstrates more finesse and respect. The Emirati edition, “Love is Blind, Habibi”, is a bit harder for a Western, emancipated woman like me to apprehend, as true equality between men and women is still not fully present in that society.

By Sigrid Schelstraete  Managing Director & Personal Matchmaker Brussels & Wallonia

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Can feelings of love can emerge solely through conversation?

The experiment in all three countries shows that feelings of love can indeed emerge solely through conversation, independent of physical appearance. However, once the couples get to know each other in person, it becomes clear that physical attraction plays a critical role in determining whether the relationship will succeed. Without physical attraction, the relationship remains at a friendship level.

For some participants, the first glance is enough to decide whether they wish to continue with the experiment or not. Others choose to give love the time to grow, even if the physical connection isn’t immediate. In some cases, that attraction does eventually develop over time.

The power of Relational Intelligence

The chance of success also strongly depends on the relational intelligence of the participants – a characteristic explored in detail in the book “Relationele Intelligentie” by Annemieke Dubois, colleague and founder of matchmaking agency Jade & Jules. It’s about opening your heart, accepting that a perfect relationship doesn’t exist, focusing on the positives in your partner, and giving your relationship some oxygen from time to time.

Why Jade & Jules chooses to share photographs

At Jade & Jules, we choose for a complete approach in matchmaking. While many matchmaking agencies choose not to share photos, we believe this is a crucial part of the process. Why? Because love is not just friendship. The visual aspect and attraction play a significant role in building a lasting relationship. We understand that trust and privacy are essential. For this reason, we uphold strict confidentiality and ethics in our work. Photos are only shared in a secure and discreet environment, always and only with mutual consent. This ensures the integrity of our process as well as respect for our clients.

We choose transparency and honesty because we believe in the complete picture, where both inner and outer qualities come together.

What’s your take? Does physical attraction play a role in matchmaking?
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Jade & Jules, founded by Annemieke Dubois, is an exclusive relationship agency for financially independent singles, such as entrepreneurs and business executives, looking for a serious and lasting relationship. With a growing network in Flanders, Wallonia and Brussels, Jade & Jules sets a new quality standard in matchmaking.
In Flanders, the team of experienced matchmakers AnnemiekeVeronique and Nathalie are at your service.

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