The modern single’s dilemma
Finding a partner seems easier than ever in the digital age, with numerous dating apps offering access to an almost unlimited pool of potential matches. However, a successful match is often only the beginning and does not guarantee the sustainability of the relationship. Recent studies show that Belgium has one of the highest divorce rates in Europe, with 2.9 divorces per 1,000 inhabitants. In 2023, 20,034 divorces were registered, a 3.6% increase compared to the previous year.
The solution: Relational Intelligence (RQ)
According to Annemieke Dubois, owner and matchmaker of Jade & Jules and author of the book Relationele Intelligentie voor Singles (RQ), relational intelligence is essential for building lasting relationships. “Anyone can date or fall in love, but building a long, happy relationship requires skills that must be developed,” explains Annemieke Dubois, founder of Jade & Jules. These skills include self-awareness, self-regulation, recognizing and breaking patterns, and developing secure attachment styles.
Chemistry between two people is, of course, an unpredictable factor, but even this can be enhanced by the right circumstances and relational skills. “It’s not just about finding the right partner, but also about building and maintaining the right relationship, daring to make choices for oneself and for each other,” adds Annemieke.
Key Figures
- 50% increase in the number of singles in Flanders over the past 15 years.
- 2.9 divorces per 1,000 inhabitants: Belgium has one of the highest divorce rates in Europe.
- 20,034 divorces in 2023, a 3.6% increase compared to 2022.
- By 2030, the number of singles in Flanders is expected to reach 1.05 million.
The Dating Coach: The New Standard in Matchmaking
In a world where traditional dating apps are losing their appeal, the demand for personalized matchmaking services continues to grow. Jade & Jules, founded by Annemieke Dubois in 2020, has quickly established itself as a leader in this field. Focusing on entrepreneurs and busy professionals, the agency offers a deep and effective approach to dating.
“Relational intelligence is not an innate quality but a skill that can be developed. A dating coach can guide you through this process and help you create a lasting love life,” emphasizes Dubois.
Conclusion
With the increasing number of singles and divorces in Belgium, it becomes clear that a new approach is needed to foster long-lasting relationships. Dating coaches, combined with matchmaking, offer a solution that goes beyond superficial matches by focusing on the development of relational intelligence and building meaningful, long-term relationships.
About Jade & Jules
Founded in 2020 by Annemieke Dubois, Jade & Jules is an exclusive matchmaking agency for financially independent singles, such as entrepreneurs and business leaders, who are seeking a serious and lasting relationship. With a growing network in Flanders, Wallonia, and Brussels, Jade & Jules is setting a new standard in matchmaking.
In Flanders, the team of experienced matchmakers, including Annemieke, Véronique, and Nathalie, is ready to assist you. The new office in Brussels is led by Sigrid Schelstraete. Annemieke’s expertise in relationships is also documented in her book Relationele Intelligentie voor Singles, available from Borgerhoff & Lamberigts.