1. What Does Our Dream Life Look Like?

Before sharing your finances, it’s important to dream about your future together. Where do you want to live, what do your careers look like, and how would you handle an unexpected financial windfall or setback? These conversations help you better understand each other’s values and priorities.

 

2. What About Your Money and Debts?

Honesty and transparency about money are a must if you want to be a true team. Talk openly about your income, savings, and any debts. This can be confronting, but it lays the foundation for a healthy financial future together.

 

3. Will We Combine Our Finances or Keep Them Separate?

Discuss how you want to manage your finances: joint accounts, separate finances, or a mix of both? Make clear agreements to avoid misunderstandings.

 

4. Who Manages the Household Finances?

Who will take the lead in paying bills and managing the household finances? Divide responsibilities in a way that works for both of you to minimize stress.

 

5. What If One of Us Dies Unexpectedly?

Think about the future and consider life insurance or a will, especially if you have joint assets or a significant income disparity.

 

6. Do We Need Legal Assistance?

Whether you’re getting married or not, it can be wise to understand what the law says about division in the event of a separation. Consider a cohabitation agreement or prenuptial agreement to avoid future conflicts.

 

7. How Do We Avoid Endless Fights About Money?

Money can be a source of conflict. By making agreements in advance and, for example, having a ‘fun account’ for personal expenses, you can prevent many arguments.

 

8. Who Do We Call If We Run Into Financial Trouble?

Get to know each other’s support networks. Discuss who you can call in case of a financial emergency and who has helped you in the past.

By discussing these questions together, you can lay a solid financial foundation for a successful relationship. Transparency and openness about money matters strengthen the bond and ensure that you are ready to face any financial challenge together.

 

 

Founded in 2020 by Annemieke Dubois, Jade & Jules is an exclusive matchmaking agency for financially independent singles, such as entrepreneurs and business leaders, who are seeking a serious and lasting relationship. With a growing network and offices in Flemish Brabant, East and West Flanders, Antwerp, Limburg, Brussels, and Wallonia, Jade & Jules is setting a new standard in matchmaking.

In the Dutch-speaking region, the experienced matchmakers Annemieke, Veronique, and Nathalie are ready to assist you. The new office in Brussels and Wallonia is led by Sigrid Schelstraete.

Annemieke’s expertise in relationships is also documented in her book Relationele Intelligentie voor Singles, available from Borgerhoff & Lamberigts.